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HOW TO CONTROL ANGER WITH KIDS

how to control anger with kids

Anger is a primal, spontaneous, basic, but temporary neurophysiological feeling triggered by some sort of thwarting and often heeded as an unpleasant state. Anger is real, powerful- but it need not be denied, feared or considered bad in and of itself. There are different reasons for a child’s aggression. Whether it’s caused by brain patterns (stress and trauma), genetic predisposition, brain injury or mental illness, parenting style and attachment, the important thing to remember is the child does not have much control over their behavior.

HOW TO CONTROL ANGER WITH KIDS

Tips to help control anger with kids.

  • Be a role model. Children often model the behavior they see. If a parent is using verbal or physical aggression, it's more likely that the kids will have aggression issues. The way you handle your frustration and anger is sure to affect your child. Setting a good example is a more than a certain way to deal with any impending aggression or anger issues.

HOW TO CONTROL ANGER WITH KIDS

  • Physical strategies such as engaging in exercise at the gym, yoga, sports, mindfulness that are all proven effective in helping young people calm their nerves and gain better control of their choices in healthy behavior.

HOW TO CONTROL ANGER WITH KIDS

  • Let them talk it out. Calmly ask them to explain the cause their anger. Talking through the issue can help some kids work through the anger and calm down.

HOW TO CONTROL ANGER WITH KIDS

  • Praise good behavior. Let your child know that you recognize and notice when they deal with their anger in an appropriate and positive way.

HOW TO CONTROL ANGER WITH KIDS

  • Stay near and connected. When they are upset, let your child know that you understand what it is they feel and would like to help.

HOW TO CONTROL ANGER WITH KIDS

  • Help your child develop emotional intelligence. Kids who are comfortable with how they feel are able to handle their anger more constructively.

HOW TO CONTROL ANGER WITH KIDS

  • Make learning fun. Constantly lecturing your kids on why their behavior and actions are wrong will not likely be effective and would cause more behavioral difficulty. Participate in a little bit of their imagination by playing make-believe. This way, you can have control over any aggressive turns they might take.

HOW TO CONTROL ANGER WITH KIDS

  • Don’t attempt to orchestrate their feelings. Value what it is they are experiencing. If they are hurt and crying, don’t say to them, “Stop crying”, validate their experience, saying “I know it hurts; that would have made me cry too,". This will make an ally out of you instead of a target for free-floating anger and anxiety.

HOW TO CONTROL ANGER WITH KIDS

  • Do not set them off to go calm down. This usually leads to more destructive behavior. Therefore, no timeouts, no isolation. Incorporate the methods talked about in this post: work on breathing with them.

HOW TO CONTROL ANGER WITH KIDS

  • Establish clear standards on acceptable and unacceptable behavior. Though we want to validate what our child is feeling; allowing these emotions does not translate into the acceptance of bad behavior. By limiting their aggressive behavior, you are establishing a safety container for their feelings.

HOW TO CONTROL ANGER WITH KIDS

We do not have to look far and wide to the causes of anger in our children; technology is a great contributor on its own. A study has shown as harmless as harmless as games can seem on a tablet or mobile device, they are basically a full-on assault on the senses (what scientists would term as the sensory overload).

One of the major causes of frustration and anger issues in kids is lack of focus. When a child’s mind is so entangled at keeping up with the latest game or app, they lose the ability to focus on anything else around them. The real world intrinsically becomes exasperation.

Taking away a kid’s mobile device today is sure to make them freak out sending a spit of rage to anyone around. Screen addiction is as bad as we deem it to be. Chemically, the dependence of a child to their mobile device is based on the hormone, dopamine released in the brain and just like a drug addict, your child can build up dopamine sensitivities that affect motivation and mood.

Yes, technology is influencing the way our children react to the real world and the people in it if its use is not regulated we most likely will be bringing up robots incapable of feeling empathetic. This most definitely brings about the need for parental control on these gadgets that somewhat own your child.

FamiSafe is a free parental control internet filtering software that ensures you keep tabs on what your children get access to on the internet, how long they get access to these sites, and even ensure you keep a tab on your parenting by being able to track your kids in real time.

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  • Location Tracking & Geo-fencing
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Features of FamiSafe Parental Control.

  1. Tracks real-time location and geo-fencing. You can easily keep track of your children’s whereabouts without having to constantly ask where they are. The live location is automatically updated on your device when you open the application or log into your FamiSafe account.
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  3. FamiSafe has an app blocker and an activity monitor. You can block app usage during the study or sleep time, monitor how your kids use their phone, what apps installed an uninstalled, how social media apps are used, what apps are most used, etc.
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  5. Web content filter. You are able to keep your kids away from potential online threats by blocking any inappropriate or unwanted websites with harmful content such as pornography, gambling, violence, etc.
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  7. Screen time tracking and controls. You are able to monitor how your kids use their phones, set screen time limits and ensure that they can’t use their phones during study and sleep time or in specific places such as bedrooms and schools.
  8. Flexible remote control and personalization setting. No more having to handle your kid’s phones, once the app is installed you can make set everything from your own device flexibly.

It is much easier to get a handle on the problem if you know what the root is and how far down it goes. Controlling anger with kids is best addressed if you know the cause of their aggression or frustration. The internet, mobile devices, tablets, etc all go into one bundle. Screen addiction being the elephant in the room has caused children to ignore the world around them; this lack of interaction with the real world is what would cause them to feel aggressive around other people because they have not learned how to interact outside their virtual time in front of their screens.

FamiSafe Parental Control will help you cure what is treatable (digital addiction), a major cause of anger issues and frustration from children that will be effective in controlling their anger. Download FamiSafe free from the App store or Google play store and have a try.

How to control anger in children is key but we have first to recognize and understand what triggered or caused the anger. In addition, the fruit does not fall so far away from the tree which means that most of the time your children will be modeling what is right in front of them. Verbal and physical aggression from you as a parent will end up being replicated by them. Convey your own values showing them that they should always be looking for more constructive solutions to conflict and disagreement.

Thomas Jones by Thomas Jones Updated Aug 29,2018 11:42 am
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