I'm Benjamin, a publishing editor in Sydney. I've always encouraged my 13-year-old daughter Lily to read more, so I bought her a fancy e-reader last Christmas. One Tuesday evening in March, she walked into my study while I was reviewing manuscripts. "Dad, my friend recommended this novel, but… there's some weird stuff in it." My heart sank when I scrolled through the pages. Explicit scenes. Adult themes. This wasn't young adult fiction—it was something far more mature. As someone who reviews manuscripts daily, I could instantly recognize the inappropriate content. But instead of panicking, I took a breath. She came to me. That mattered.
Meet the Cartwright Family Story
Turning a reading crisis into a chance to guide, not control
Our Family's Struggle
Challenge
I felt like I'd failed. Here I was, working in publishing, and I didn't even think about what Lily could access on that e-reader. Online literature has no age gates, no warnings. Just endless content, some of it wildly inappropriate. I didn't want to take away her device—that would kill her love of reading. But I couldn't just let her stumble into more mature content either. The next few days, I kept replaying that moment. What if she hadn't told me? What if she'd felt too embarrassed? I work with books every day, yet I'd never considered how unregulated digital reading platforms are. I needed a way to protect her without shutting down her curiosity. But how?
Solution
A colleague mentioned FamiSafe during our morning coffee. "Ben, you can filter content on tablets too, not just phones." I installed it that weekend. I set up content filters on Lily's tablet and enabled app download approval. But the real change came when I started our weekly book club—just the two of us. Every Sunday night, we'd pick a book together. I recommended *The Hunger Games*, *Harry Potter*, *Percy Jackson*. At first, she rolled her eyes. "Dad, you're being overprotective." But three weeks in, she texted me from school: "Dad, Katniss is SO cool!" Last month, she presented *The Book Thief* at her school reading club. Now she asks me for recommendations. Our bond? Stronger than ever.