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Have you ever wondered whether Discord is safe to use? You may have heard your children talk about how fun it is or see information on the Internet and want to know more. It is not difficult to find out that open chat apps like Discord is always dangerous for kids to use.

To avoid such danger, it would be better to let your kids accept friend requests only and participate in private servers with people they know on Discord. But it is hard to make it work that way. The best solution to ensure your kids' online safety is to take advantage of privacy settings and monitor the app usage of your kids. This article will show you how to do that.


Part 1. What is Discord?

Discord is a messaging platform that is very similar to Slack. It includes several features such as chat rooms, direct messages, voice chat, and video calls. Users can join different servers, and each server has other channels. Regard it as a chat room - it can be anything, from large social video game servers to small, private groups of friends.

Part 2. How old do you have to be for Discord?

Unless local law permits age, the minimum age to reach Discord is 13. To ensure that users meet that minimum age requirement, Discord has set up a verification process while users are signing up to confirm their age.

Part 3. What is so good about Discord?

Discord makes chatting easy and offers search functions to help you find other people and add them to a friend list for quick communication. For the games which do not have the option to communicate with others over voiceover, like Among Us, Discord can be a saver.

Part 4. The Dangers of Discord

The forum is not suitable for very young children. Discord contains adult content and should be labeled as available only to those over 18 years of age. Anyone who opens the channel will see a warning message informing them that there may have explicit content and asking them to verify that they are over 18 years old. Servers containing adult but non-label equipment should be reported.

Most chats are private and allow live video and location tracking

Records in Discord are confidential to the group and are therefore less open and less visible than other social networks. Along with this, you can type, talk, listen to and watch live videos of other users. There is also a feature named Nearby on Discord, which allows users to add friends who are physically nearby by the location tracking feature of the phone.

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Explicit Contents and Comments

According to this app’s age rating, it is easy to tell that Discord is more appropriate for adults. If you happen to have a chance to use this app, you will find out that sexual comments and swearing words are common occurrences.

Discord makes it easier for predators to communicate with children

Just like anywhere else on the Internet where you have the opportunity to meet strangers, chatting apps can be a perfect place for online predators to find victims. The app is used for communicating during game time mostly by young kids, then the chance for your kids to meet strangers is doubled.

Discord makes cyberbullying even easier

As mentioned earlier, the audio and video streaming on Discord will not get reserved, making a prominent place for cyberbullying to occur without leaving any proof. However, what makes the circumstance worse is that there is no way to tell whether your child's chatting and video streaming process is recorded by others or not, and there is no way to tell their purpose by doing that.

Part 5. How can you monitor your children's work on Discord?

Discord does not have any modern parental controls, but it has several features to restrict communication from unwanted parties and block content identified as inappropriate for kids. Take action and utilize it.

1. Open the Discord app, then click the Settings icon in the bottom left.

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2. Select the Privacy & Safety tab on the left side of the window.

3. Then, under Safe Direct Messaging, check the Keep Me Safe box.

By enabling this feature, all the content will be scanned and filtered out to identify as explicit or inappropriate for young kids.

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Another feature, Who Can Add You As a Friend, can be used to protect your kids from getting harassed by strangers as well.


If the built-in feature does not help you a lot, it is recommended to use the Parental Control app like Wondershare FamiSafe to protect your kids’ online safety in real-time remotely.

FamiSafe offers full and solid resources that allow you to find out what your kids are doing on their tech devices. Not only can it help you ensure your kids’ online safety, but also physical security by informing you of their real-time location. Here are some features that you are probably interested in.

1. Screen Time

Get extra off-screen time for your kids by physically blocking their devices.

  • Block away or turn off your child's digital devices to help them control their screen time.
  • Set daily or recurring screen time limits to restrict phone usage.
  • Customize the blocked app lists to authorize certain applications during the closure.

2. Application Blocker

Lock apps by age rating on iOS, block or restrict certain threatening apps.

  • Applications can be categorized by age, and the locked app icon will disappear from the children's iOS devices.
  • One step to lock all apps that are not suitable for your children.

3. Web Filter

FamiSafe will apply certain filtering rules to automatically filter the content that your kid sees on the various browsers.

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[Video Tutorial] How to monitor discord remotely?

Part 6. More Suggestions to Make Discord Safer to Use

Apart from using the Parental Control app to monitor kids’ online activities, there are still several methods that parents can try to make it safer for their kids to use any app like Discord or even any tech device.

As parents, you should spend some time reviewing and discussing your child's app settings so you can customize their Discord experience.

1. Teach your children how to behave online:

The anonymity of a social network can cause children to act in a way that they would not in real life. Tell your kids about the uncertainty of cyberbullying and pornography and what kind of side effects this information can cause to them. If you have doubts about how they will behave online, it is best to delay allowing access to the tech devices. Stick to a highly monitored app until they gain your trust.

2. Let them know why there are age restrictions on some websites and apps

Introduce why some apps and browsers on the internet are not suitable for little kids and what they should do when encountering apps containing age restriction or access warnings. You can show your kids the example or news to let them believe what you are talking about is true.

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3. Get access to your children's Discord Account to check their activities weekly/monthly

Make certain security features are still on. Check which servers are on, and then look for their friends and direct messages. Ask your kids if anything in Discord has made them feel uncomfortable or insecure. Things change over time, so you will need to follow up regularly to make sure things are still right.

4. Use other secure applications

If your child can use Discord safely, the application can be a good way to connect with their real-life friends through games where they can be together. Especially during the pandemic lockdown. But due to the lack of parental controls, Discord will always be the dangerous app that kids can use. Carefully evaluate whether the benefits outweigh the risks of Discord. If you choose to allow this app, make sure your kids have their internal filter to protect themselves while having fun online.


What concerns parents most is not the Discord app, but the colorful and various information accessible online and kids’ excessive usage of tech devices. Blocking or deleting the Discord app can not fix this issue from the root; parents need to establish a safe and healthy online environment for their kids and educate them on how to behave online. In this way, then parents’ concerns can be relieved easily.

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